Sunday, November 20, 2005

Buh Bye Mabel

I need closure on the Mabel situation, and as it looks like I won't be getting that from her, maybe I can get it by posting about it here. Basically I have talked to her once since we went to IKEA, oh only about seven weeks ago. I called her one Sunday afternoon about 2 weeks after the IKEA trip. I never did call her much because she was always talking about how she didn't really like to talk on the phone. She was studying for a midterm at her Mom's house. We talked for about 10 minutes, until she decided that a trip to the grocery store with her Mom sounded like more fun than talking to me. Yeah, I know I always love to go to the f'in grocery store - where else can I get my Wang Chung fix? I sent her a couple of e-mails after that that she never replied to. So, she either:

(A) Is too busy to do anything but study and go to the grocery store with Mom.
(B) Went fucking crazy from all the stress and killed herself, her mother, and her dogs.
(C) Just flat out didn't dig me.

I thought about trying to call her again, but I figured why waste my time. If she wanted to talk she could drop me an e-mail. If she was interested she was making me work way too hard! C'mon, I'm lazy. I would be lying if I said I wasn't disappointed, but life goes on.


Blogger Michelle Fry said...

I think your blog readers provide evidence that lots of chicks dig you. I'm quite certain you will find someone who's more in to you and has more time to spend with you. Good for you for getting closure on the whole thing.

11/20/2005 10:34 PM  
Blogger JC said...

Damn, I sound bitter.

If the reason was that she just didn't like me, she's certainly entitled to her opinion. You either like someone or you don't, so I can't really hold that against her.

Thanks for your comment!

11/21/2005 12:04 AM  
Blogger acumamakiki said...

I'm with Michelle on this one, you will most definitely find someone. I'm a little shocked actually that you haven't already but maybe Mabel was clogging the neural pathways.
It's always good to get closure and now, you'll be able to be open to meeting someone new.

11/21/2005 7:57 AM  
Blogger baylor said...

There has always been this stigma that "guys are jerks." But lately I have been noticing more and more that "girls are crazy!"

You were probably way too good for her dumb ass anyway!

Michelle is right, lots of girls do dig you! Keep the faith, friend! You'll find the right one!

11/21/2005 7:59 AM  
Blogger Anne said...

mabel is a dickhead and you are better off without her clogging your neuralnet. seriously, you gave her more than enough opportunity to 'get to know me' (but you of course) and she decided not to. her loss. move'em on and head'em out.

11/21/2005 11:15 AM  
Blogger Michelle Fry said...

You dont' sound bitter at all, just disappointed and that's pretty normal. Mabel missed out big time.

11/21/2005 11:47 AM  
Blogger JC said...

Thanks for the support!

A - it's actually not surprising that I haven't met anyone, I don't go out much, I don't have any friends that know single people, and even if I saw someone on the street that I wanted to talk to chances are that 99% of the time I wouldn't talk to them unless they said something to me first. Which almost never happens.

Even with all this bitching, being in a relationship is not the be-all end-all goal of my existence. If I meet someone, great. If I don't, great. There are plenty of other areas to channel my energies into.

11/21/2005 12:51 PM  
Blogger holli said...

Dammit - don't not post for days and then post twice. It screws me up. I totally missed this post.

Yes, Mabel missed the boat. I misread what kiki wrote and thought initially she said "Mabel went clogging," like the shoe dancing of old..

F Mabel - let her get her Wang Chung on with Krazy Kroger.

11/21/2005 2:07 PM  
Blogger holli said...


EVERYONE is crazy. I know that now FOR POSITIVE.

References available upon request.

11/21/2005 2:08 PM  
Blogger JC said...

There's something extremely funny to me about Anne calling Mabel a dickhead :D

I guess that's not something you hear a woman say about another woman very often!

11/21/2005 2:31 PM  
Blogger holli said...

Anne also LOVES MATH!!!!

11/21/2005 2:58 PM  
Blogger baylor said...

I am fairly certain I will be using the term "dickhead" as a reference to girls I do not like in the near future...

(and passing it off as my own!) Love it!

11/21/2005 4:05 PM  
Blogger holli said...

I think I'm starting to like commenting on your blog better than writing on my own.


oh wait.. that should have read BIG LOTS!!!

I most certainly couldn't say dickhead on a blog that nana reads!! Maybe this is why the porn sites are linking to you???

11/21/2005 7:00 PM  
Blogger JC said...

Oh my, Holli, you really do have Tourette's!

11/21/2005 10:13 PM  

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